天秤座终极完美分析 (Libra personality analysis)

优雅的天平在灯红酒绿中微笑转身，顾盼神采，洒脱如同水中的鱼。他们与红酒，水晶杯，晚礼服，钢琴曲是那么的相得益彰，漫不经意的吸引着公众的眼光……

几乎所有人都有这样一种印象：

天平座的人善意、可亲，爱交朋友。于是大家也由此认为天平是群居生物，必然是害怕独处，喜欢热闹的。

但，事实并不是表面看来那样简单。

的确，天平是个和平使者。在公众场合可以很好地调节气氛使之均衡。气氛热烈时，他们会沉静的压住阵脚；气氛冷凝时，他们会运用不着痕迹的轻松幽默化解坚冰。总之他们不会随波逐流去助长气氛的冷热，而是像用天平称量物品一样，加减砝码，使之维持水平状态。

而他们在做这种加减的时候，动作是优雅的，态度是和悦的，看起来漫不经心不动声色。实际上，他们是很有心计的人，尽管众口难调，也可以找到一种万全的方式来使全局和谐起来。

但是这并不是说他们喜欢主宰，只是因为他们看不得失衡，那会使他们如坐针毡。

因此，尽管慵懒的天平座讨厌麻烦，讨厌得要命，他们还是会不由自主地担负起调节的责任。也许正因如此，使得天平在公众场合从未放松过自己。性格使他们承担了不必要的责任，无可推卸。

他们不吝惜金钱，却吝惜自由的时间和安静的休闲时光。像所有风向星座一样，他们喜欢自由，喜欢像风一样谁也捉不住他。

他们喜欢自在独立的空间。(*nods nods) 就算你是他最好的朋友，也不要老和他粘在一起，你要知道他并不喜欢如此，尽管他不会直接说出来。你也得相信，你的天平座朋友也许半年也没有音信，但是只要一见面，你还是他最好的朋友。因为他就是这种交友方式，你拿他怎么办？

“我懒得……”

这是天平座的口头语。他们懒得出门，懒得聚会，懒得应酬……所以他们并不是很喜欢参加party。倒是宁愿呆在家里上网，看书，画画。(agree!) 他们自身是均衡的，一个人的均衡总比一群人的均衡来的容易。所以他们喜欢独处。

通常，天平座的人会给人一见如故的感觉，因为他们有着温婉的微笑和优雅的举止。对初次见面的人，天平座往往表现出自己最讨人喜欢的一面：善解人意，大方，诚恳，健谈。但是这种热情劲儿不会长久。冷漠何时到来取决于你与他交往的频率。你越是粘得紧，他就冷得越快。因为他们喜欢“君子之交清淡如水”。不是他们不喜欢同伴，而是他们和人交往更多地关注了对方的情绪，总想着照顾对方心情，不要发生冲突，所以感觉像是在工作一样，无法真正的放松。

较之对宫白羊座，天平是另一种独立的个体。白羊是一种外在的独立，内心是热的；天平则是表面看似亲和力很强，内心却是任谁也无法融入的。天平的冷静，连他们自己也觉得惊讶。“我居然如此冷漠！太不可思议了……”他们审视自己的时候，感觉有点陌生。那是因为他们把内心世界掩饰得连自己都骗过了。

他们控制情绪的能力太强了。最亲近的人会感觉到，天平给人不露声色的隔离感，有时会被埋怨“太冷静了，我都不知道你在想什么！”

可是他们不是故意要隐瞒什么，只是出于本能。一个连自己都骗过了的人，你还能要求他对你坦白什么？

他们不喜欢歇斯底里，不喜欢痛哭失声，不喜欢安慰别人也不怎么喜欢被安慰。因为他们懂得，谁也无法真正理解另一个人。

天平，其实是很独立的一个星座。他们在霓虹灯影里微笑，在灯火阑珊处寂寞。他们叫你懂得：孤独的最高境界是繁华
 
The ending sounds so sad.
lol, but some points i agree~
Libra do not really like to parties, sometimes like to laze around at home.
=)

For a change

Something much better to blog about.
This makes my blog mood color swing from red/black to bright sunshine yellow~!
Firstly, i got my $20 of Ben and Jerry Voucher from DReams magazine.
Super happy la! =P
Along with my left over Shaw weekdays ticket and my Captialand mall vouchers to spend.
I'm voucher girl.
lol, also contest auntie.
my colleuge, Joanne say that im always talking abt this contest won smth and that contest won smth.
lol.
Only 7-up contest and this dREam magazine only ma.
where got alot.
hehe~
Going to disappear on Pre-Christmas period to West Malaysia~
Yippieeeee~!!!
=)
But... ...
*hands pull out both empty pockets*
Pok gai liao~
(No money in hokkien)

Thanks Sarah for sending me the photos! :)
haha and paiseh tt i forgotten wad i said~
hehehe~

Jiro is so cuteeeee! :)

My lappy is under going maintence of 2 weeks plus a 2-3week of waiting~
piang!
They say that my HDD has error and need to order a brand new one from Taiwan.
So it has to wait for around 2-3weeks for it.
-.-''''
Wad other brands is worst den this?
*grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Lappy going hospital~

Going to send my laptop to the service centre today.

On friday, after an update from adobe 9, it shut down and restart.
Later on, it turn on to a blank screen.
Some serious window error with code 0x0
i can't even reformat lor~
Less den 1 mth, this notebook crashed~
(bought at the previous IT show on 12th September)
the worst thing is that i didn't even backed up my files.
There goes my photos~
=(

life sucks~

Ai Qing Hai! :)

Me going there tomorrow with my former guitar fren, Aixia.
Heard that our teacher going to play :)
I've never been there before but heard that its a place where they play acoustic music sometimes of their own composition and sometimes performances of the well known singer's songs.
It'll be a mini cafe with live music/band with bubble tea served :)
My fren says that the bbtea is super big cup and nice!
can't wait to go after work~

-- updates --
We went marina to eat.
But in the end, we didnt go the cafe.
1stly, the people playing wasnt our teacher.
2ndly, the theme was Zhou guo de shui yue (meaning oldies song).
So we stood outside for a preview, and decide to go for walk walk instead.
abit disappointed but i was quite tired~
so was glad to reach home before 10pm and rest =)
We saw a day with Ah mei's jing xuan (meaning collection/series), maybe we could go there again! =)

Libra

Libra Strength Keywords:
- Diplomatic
- Graceful
- Peaceful
- Idealistic
- Hospitable

Libra Weakness Keywords:
- Superficial
- Vain
- Indecisive
- Unreliable

Libra and Independence:
Libras like to be around other people, they are all about partnerships and groups. They are happiest when other people are around and when other people are doing their work. They are lazy but like posh surrounding and nice decor. These two extremes could strike a balance and the Libra living on his own could either have a very messy place or a very intricately decorated place. They can be independent, they have the intelligence and the full capability within but would a Libra rather co-exist/depend on others.

Libra and Friendship:
Libras love excitement, new situations, adventure and the unusual. They make friends with people from all walks of life and they are always up to something new and exciting with enthusiasm. Libras are great at getting along with people, everyone likes a Libra. They are all about partnerships and groups, they are the glue that hold a group together because they are the ones responsible for keeping harmony and peace. Libras have mastered the art of relationships, not just romantic but business, personal, and family relationships just to name a few. No one is able to see another person's point of view better then a Libra.
Libra and Business:
Libras dislike hard work, they are lazy when it comes to getting their hands dirty and doing the work themselves. Fortunately, their intuitive instincts are good at telling them where money can come from. They can think up great business ideas that are original and bound for success, they can initiate the idea but they need someone else to do the work. Libras make good business partners but not good business people on their own. Libras have potential of being a good leader with their diplomatic ways, but but they are just too lazy to do the hard work required and climb a corporate ladder. A good way for Libra to become wealthy is through artistic endeavors. They can be painters, interior decorators, actors or writing screenplays or composing. These are great ideas because it incorporates Libra's hobby with a moneymaking venture.
Libra and Temperament:
Libras have excellent instincts and intuition, most of the time they do not trust them enough. Libras are likely to be underachievers due to the easygoing attitude. This does not mean that they are necessarily lazy, they just make do with whatever comes their way. They do not want anything badly enough to fight for it. The only time that a Libra will usually stand up is if a situation is unfair, the only time a Libra will definitely stand up is if they feel something involving them is unfair. They need their respect and their fairness, after all, Libra has done so much for other people, it deserves at least fairness, right? When this issue comes into play, Libra becomes courageous.

Libra Deep Inside:
They are also likely to hide or bend their own true feelings in order to bring peace with a group and to make others like them. Sometime this results in them not really knowing what their true feelings are because they are trying to make everyone happy. Other people can see this and Libras have earned themselves a reputation for being indecisive, they simply do not want to hurt anyone's feelings or cause disorder or friction in a situation. This spills over inside the person and many times, Libras have difficulty making decisions. Inside, the Libra is very insecure, they suffer from a lack of self confidence, they are always searching for something to complete them. This is another reason why they are social butterflies, it is an unconscious attempt to find the missing peace through other people. By trying to appease other people all the time, Libras don't really know who they are inside. Libras desperately need love and approval, they will do the favors that people ask and and have a hard time saying 'no' or 'I'm too busy' in order to prove how nice they are, this gradually builds up resentment and negative self esteem issues inside. Libra's indecisiveness is caused by fear, their fear that a wrong decision will make everything come crashing down around them and cause turmoil in their lives. Life is not like that and the Libra that acknowledges the fact that life has ups and downs will be less emotionally wound up, not so hard on themselves and as a result, they will be a much happier person.
Libra in a Nutshell:
Libras are the diplomat of the zodiac. They are able to put themselves in other's shoes and see things through another person's point of view. They are the ones that always want to make things right and have balance and harmony in their life, their surroundings and the lives of the people close to them. They have captivating charm, elegant taste and they are easy to like due to their eager-to-please, easygoing nature. In return for a Libra's amazing ability to be a good listener, sooth and calm people, they expect admiration. Libras will gather a group of people, everyone will become friends then the Libra will be in the center of the group. They like the attention and the admiration for the people that they have brought together. Libras are very intelligent, they often hide this inside their easygoing exterior. They express their intelligence through creativity, most are involved in some sort of artistic or creative pursuit. Many people overlook just how intelligent a Libra actually is. When others see a Libras wide range of interests and hobbies, their intelligence and creativity is more then obvious. Libras love variety and different situations. They welcome change. Libras love luxury. They will spend lots of money and surround themselves with beautiful things and they seem to be constantly fussing over their appearance. They love anything upscale and classy. Libras work hard to please others, this they do an others find them incredibly captivating.

Thank you :)

Thank you everyone for for all the greeting, wishes, gifts, birthday cards and celebrations. :)
Via: Sms, snail mails, facebook & face to face!
Any method will do, as long as you remember my special day :)

Special thanks to:
1) Shuying! My longest friend who made a really pretty bday card just for me and a music clef necklace~
2) My work colleuges. They made us ( me & brenz) each a cheese cake! 1st time receiving a DIY bday cake. Oh, plus a huge blue carebear! some vouchers~ =))))
3) Da yi ma who also celebrating with me on my birthday itself -.-
3) Someone who put alot of efforts into tinking of what do to on my birthday. lol~ In the end cos of da yi ma, den i was v tired and didnt go where we supposed to go to. In the end we went to watch Cloudy... in 3D! Surprisingly the movie was better than i thought it would be~ Though the steamboat for dinner wasn't that wonderful. I did enjoy myself~ Thanks!
4) My flautist girls! and my teddy Panda carebearrrrrrr~!!!!! my 1st black & white carebearrr! Its too cute to be described! *pinchpinch* :) We had our dinner at breeks & later on walked around at causeway point. =)))
5) More to come? :)

Pictures will be up when i received them all! =)